Question: Can Doctrine Become Idolatry?

Anonymous asked:

It seems that too many Christians make agreement with the right beliefs into yet another work they use to save themselves and an excuse to hate other Christians (especially liberal and progressive Christians.) Do you think adherence to correct doctrine can become an idol?

Hey my friend: I don’t mean to sound like an alarmist, but pretty much everything can become idolatry.  Especially doctrine.

A few years ago, I was really caught up by the Reformed Calvinist movement and their “Gospel-Centrality,” and while I still mostly agree with the theology, I no longer self-identify as a Calvinist.

Mainly it was because their heads were stuck inside the implications of the Gospel instead of the author of the Gospel Himself, so there was no real relationship with the Living God.  But it was also because most of the Calvinists I’ve met were insufferable a-holes who yelled “heresy” from a distance on their super-blogs while hardly loving God or people.

I know I’m undermining my own point here, and God has grace for them too, but my friends who are actually cool Calvinists do not wear the label.   In other words: if I can’t tell a Calvinist is a Calvinist, he’s probably doing it right.

The Christian life is often about maintaining a balance between tensions.  So while we absolutely want to have correct doctrine, we also want to be in the mess with people and love on them.  While we adhere to the discipline and law of God, we are also motivated by God’s grace and mercy.  While I believe in predestination, I also believe this reconciles with free will — and I don’t claim to know how, because my brain is too small and I’m allergic to paradoxes.  When we swing too much to either side, it becomes doctrinal idolatry.

Let’s break this down a bit.  The reason why even Christians resort to shutting each other down is because —

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Quote: Free From Yourself


To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.


— Lewis B. Smedes

The Itchy Icky Gap: Between Who We Are and Who We Want To Be




Hello beloved friends!

This message is titled, The Itchy Icky Gap: Between Who We Are and Who We Want To Be.

It’s about how we try to scratch the itch between who we are and who we want to be, and how only one thing ever works.

Stream here or download directly here!

Some things I talk about are: When you get older and your body stops listening to your brain, when you think you’ve made spiritual progress but then you cuss out someone in traffic, that slobbery screaming moment on the phone when you vent everything, how far you’d go for a million dollars, and the crazy anxious fear of raising a human baby.

Be blessed and love y’all!

— J



God Seems A Little Crazy In The Old Testament — A Mega-Post on the OT

Anonymous asked:

Hi, I really love your blog and I love your take on different issues. I’m wondering if you can help me. I have a very intelligent, seeking friend who spends his time learning about different cultures, demographics and religions. He just sent me Genesis 11 and pointed out that God brings division to humanity, and through it war, racism, and other kinds of oppression. I really don’t know what to say because that’s a really valid point, and I’ve always been huge on God bringing justice and love…

Thank you for your kind words and for trusting me with this issue.  It’s a tough one — and you’re not the only one who thinks so.

I think deep inside, every single Christian in the world has an unresolved tension with the Old Testament.  If the OT were a dinner guest, we’d all be staring at her from across the room as she flips furniture and tells wild stories and eats the entire martini glass.  She’s kind of hot, but she’s also a tad bit crazy.

I don’t mean to sound blasphemous, but really: with all these Christian books trying to reconcile the “gracious fairy God” with the “OT monster God,” it sounds like we’re just apologizing for God all the time.  Does He really need all this watered down press?  Does He need better public relations?  Can we really tame the God of the Bible?

Because if God is really God, then He can do whatever He dang well wants.  Fortunately for us: God is “bound” by His very own nature, so however you assume God works, you’ll see His actions as immediately bad or investing in the good.

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Quote: What I’m Really Saying


If you are like me, the reason you sometimes feel sorry for yourself is because it feels good. I know that sounds odd, but if you think about it, it really does. When I feel sorry for myself, what I’m really saying is that I deserved better, that I am a better person than what the situation has dealt me. And if you think about it, that’s kind of an arrogant thing to say. It would be better if our attitude was more like,
Man, that stinks, I didn’t get the job, or, That girl rejected me; better luck next time. Or we could just laugh about it with our friends. The trouble comes when something hard happens and we choose to stop and milk it for attention. There’s no progress in that, and it isn’t going to get us anywhere. And it’s also annoying.

— Donald Miller

Marble Hearts, Soil Art



Theology does not become theology until life happens.

What I mean is: most people can say they trust God and have faith and know Him, but life has a way of drawing out what we really believe.

This is a good thing. God is so gracious that He will take even our utterly horrible response to life and chisel it into a deeper, richer, realer foundation — for a root that blooms fruits which last in our toughest seasons.

So when we vent, blow up, act out, shake a fist, flip a table, or shut down: God can shape each of these into a part of us so that our experiences sculpt a theology that works. He takes the particular jagged edges of life to carve one more polished edge into our marble hearts. It is like grounding a foreign plant into new soil, which takes time: but God is no stranger to the dirt. He works best there.

Only if we are humble to let this happen.

— J

Quote: Filter The Former


You might have failed somewhere else, completely fallen on your face in a mushroom cloud you caused, and it haunts you now as you enter the next season of life. But as you receive a second chance in your new opportunities: give yourself a chance too. Don’t allow former hurts to become a filter in which you approach others. Don’t instantly assume that similar behaviors and attitudes from your last situation can be accusations against the new one. Approach each decision with a fresh set of eyes, free of suspicion and paranoia, but most of all, without judging yourself by the weight of what happened before.


It is easy to pass on the pain we received in a never-ending vicious cycle — but we can choose in our new seasons to cut that loop, to interrupt our old patterns with new life, to absorb the hurt with grace, to allow our wounds to heal into a strength we could not have previously known. Re-build and re-create. It’s how we move forward. It’s how we got the second chance at all: because someone risked that chance on us first.


— J

Question: Going Numb Over My Sin

Anonymous asked:

What do you do if you’re no longer remorseful about a sin? Specifically for lust/pornography/masturbation. There was a breakthrough and holding off for a while, but when i fell more recently, there was no remorse in my heart really…

My dear wonderful friend: double-high five and long awkward hug. You are winning.  Please consider the sweet delicious irony of your message.

1) You cared enough about not-caring to message me.

2) You are aware that you feel no remorse, so … that’s remorse.

3) You’re aware of the word sin, which means your heart is already in the right place about moving forward in victory.

I think one of the biggest lies a Christian believes is when feelings somehow dictate the progress of growth and maturity.  Do you know who else doesn’t “feel remorse” after sin?  Or feel God after sin, for that matter?  Pretty much mostly almost definitely everyone.

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Kick Off 2014



Hey dear friends:

To kick off your spiritual journey for 2014, these are for your consideration.


– Bible Reading Plans

– I Want To Read My Bible — But How?

– Porn Addiction: An Introduction

– A Mega-Post on Ragged Jagged Bipolar Faith

– Making Prayer Harder Than It Really Is

– Jesus Says Take A Break

– Christian Book Recommendations For The Rookies And Veterans

– Top Ten Posts of 2013

– Top Ten Podcasts of 2013


— J