Hey, I just recently found your blog, and wanted to thank you. It’s difficult to find places like these to get some honest answers and just read that I’m not alone with some of these thoughts. If you don’t mind, I have a question. I’ve never been good with people. Relationships and connections are difficult to make for me, but I also want to follow God’s word and connect with his people. I just don’t know how. I’ve tried small groups, but was always very intimidated. Any advice?
Hey my friend, thank you so much. I feel what you’re feeling here and I know the insecurity in getting to know new people.
The truth here is that most of the time, it’s very rare for us to find people who we truly connect with. Even those people who seem to connect to “everyone” end up with a few real friends in the end. The only difference is that they’re surrounded by fake shallow people far longer, and they find out too late.