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I’ve learned that if someone asks you for advice and you tell them the hard truth and they fight you in response, they weren’t really asking for advice — but self-affirmation to keep doing the wrong thing. That’s asking for less love, not more. And I can’t do that to you. Love means I have to tell you everything, even if my voice trembles and my hands shake and my eyes burn with weeping. Love means I will throw my body in front of you when you’re heading towards the cliff. It will cost my comfort with you. It’s a cost I’m willing to pay.
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Rockin’ word there J.S. It needs to go everywhere!
How much grief could I have avoided by following this point in my own life? S
This evokes so many (too many) memories. If only… But Jesus did that at the cross. Jesus did not sugar-coat the sins that drove the nails into such hands of love. May these words stir believers to discipleship!
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Great words of wisdom.