sureles asked a question:
The bible says to: “speak to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord” and I want to so badly. I want to be joyful, full of words of encouragement to those who need it. To love others well–especially those closest to me. But I am finding that I am unable to. I am finding myself to be more selfish and needy than I want to admit to myself. How can I love others well when I feel so weak and needy myself?
Hey my dear friend, the truth is that loving people was never going to be easy, because people are not easy.
They’re difficult, fluctuating, frustrating, and completely the opposite of math, because they’re unpredictable. Even loving a person well is no guarantee that it’ll turn out okay. And since each of us are just people, it’s also difficult to muster up feelings to love someone. As Francis Chan once said, if we find it tough to love a perfect God, then of course it’ll be even tougher to love imperfect people.
Here’s the deeper truth.