Anonymous asked a question:
Could you help me get a perspective on pride? It always lurking in me. I might do something good just because the opportunity was there, but afterwards, I want to share (brag) about what I just did. I don’t, because I don’t want to look like I’m bragging (about something so small, at that [appearances/pride]). I want to do more, but if it’s hard to stay humble about small things, then how can I handle greater things? And does this desire for greater come from pride?
Hey dear friend, thank you for your honesty and for every ounce of your self-awareness. While I can’t hope to cover everything about pride, let’s consider a few things together. This may be a jump-off where you can begin your own thoughts on moving forward. As always, please feel free to skip around.
1) The tricky thing about pride is that most people don’t know they have a problem with pride. Including me.
The fact that you can even articulate this about yourself is a step forward — and the tricky thing is that this could make you even more prideful.
I knew someone who used to say, “I don’t struggle with pride, it’s not one of my issues,” and I laughed, because this is exactly what pride does. Pride is a false self-elevation of our own morality and performance, so that we’re constantly looking down on others and up on ourselves.
Even worse, when I laughed at this guy who was blind to his own pride, then suddenly I became the prideful one by mocking his lack of humility. That’s how slippery this whole thing really is. I’ll go so far as to say, pride is the root of every sin, and perhaps the ultimate human problem that Jesus had to die for.