When we hear sermons about sex and dating, a piercing guilt sets in — It’s too late for me, because I’ve already messed it up.
In a Christianese church culture, there’s no room for sinners like you and me. You’re either in or you’re out. You got it or you don’t. It’s one-shot or it’s over.
[This] can make you feel you lost out on something, like you’re somehow beyond His reach. We get locked into a cycle of compensating for our wrongs. The Christianese way is to run, jump, and kick our way through faith.
The truth is that no matter where we are in our “identity” or “purity” or “maturity,” God is going to work with you on this. This is who He is. God cannot help it. He loves His children, and even those like you and me. Nothing you do could ever change God’s heart towards you, and it’s His unchanging heart that changes you.
— J.S. from The Christianese Dating Culture
J.S. Park: Hospital Chaplain, Skeptical Christian 
So true J.S. There is none of us who come to the faith unbroken. And even in our walks of faith we often become more broken before we get it all together (in fact if all together is a state in this life I have yet to find it).
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